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How to Demonstrate Dependability

at Home

  • Committing to stay together even through financial difficulties and personal conflicts.
  • Parents being faithful to go to work and provide for the family.
  • Sons and daughters completing their chores every day.
  • Helping family members to avoid making commitments they cannot keep.
  • Family members fulfilling promises they made to each other.

at Work/School

  • Sons and daughters completing their homework every day.
  • Being faithful in little responsibilities as well as big ones.
  • Being punctual for each class.

at Church

  • Being an energy-giver and refusing to complain.
  • Being faithful to regular church services.
  • Giving regularly through tithes and offerings.

Character Definitions of Dependability

  • Learning to be true to your word even when it is difficult to carry out what you promised to do. Lifting pressures from those you serve by consistently fulfilling the project they assign to you (Character Clues Game)
  • Purposing in our hearts to do the will of God whatever the cost (The Power for True Success)
  • Fulfilling what I consented to do, even if it means unexpected sacrifice (Character First!)

 

Bible Verses Related to Dependability

The word “dependability” does not appear in the Authorized Version; however a dependable person in Scripture is defined as one who is faithful. The words “aman” in the Hebrew and “pistos” in the Greek are used to describe this important character quality.

Spend an evening (or several) looking at just one of these verses at a time. Discuss with your family what each verse or story teaches about the character quality; and give vital application of how this quality can be applied to your family. Choose several verses to memorize together as a family during the month.


0539 Nma ‘aman aw-man’

a primitive root; TWOT-116; v

AV-believe 44, assurance 1, faithful 20, sure 11, established 7, trust 5, verified 3, stedfast 2, continuance 2, father 2, bring up 4, nurse 2, be nursed 1, surely be 1, stand fast 1, fail 1, trusty 1; 108

1) to support, confirm, be faithful

1a) (Qal)

1a1) to support, confirm, be faithful, uphold, nourish

1a1a) foster-father (subst.)

1a1b) foster-mother, nurse

1a1c) pillars, supporters of the door

1b) (Niphal)

1b1) to be established, be faithful, be carried, make firm

1b1a) to be carried by a nurse

1b1b) made firm, sure, lasting

1b1c) confirmed, established, sure

1b1d) verified, confirmed

1b1e) reliable, faithful, trusty

1c) (Hiphil)

1c1) to stand firm, to trust, to be certain, to believe in

1c1a) stand firm

1c1b) trust, believe

  • Genesis 15:6 And he believed <0539> in the LORD; and he counted it to him for righteousness.
  • Genesis 42:20 But bring your youngest brother unto me; so shall your words be verified <0539>, and ye shall not die. And they did so.
  • Genesis 45:26 And told him, saying, Joseph is yet alive, and he is governor over all the land of Egypt. And Jacob’s heart fainted, for he believed <0539> them not. {Jacob’s: Heb. his}
  • Exodus 4:1 And Moses answered and said, But, behold, they will not believe <0539> me, nor hearken unto my voice: for they will say, The LORD hath not appeared unto thee.
  • Exodus 4:5 That they may believe <0539> that the LORD God of their fathers, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob, hath appeared unto thee.
  • Exodus 4:8 And it shall come to pass, if they will not believe <0539> thee, neither hearken to the voice of the first sign, that they will believe <0539> the voice of the latter sign.
  • Exodus 4:9 And it shall come to pass, if they will not believe <0539> also these two signs, neither hearken unto thy voice, that thou shalt take of the water of the river, and pour it upon the dry land: and the water which thou takest out of the river shall become blood upon the dry land{shall become: Heb. shall be and shall be}
  • Exodus 4:31 And the people believed <0539>: and when they heard that the LORD had visited the children of Israel, and that he had looked upon their affliction, then they bowed their heads and worshipped.
  • Exodus 14:31 And Israel saw that great work which the LORD did upon the Egyptians: and the people feared the LORD, and believed <0539> the LORD, and his servant Moses. {work: Heb. hand}
  • Exodus 19:9 And the LORD said unto Moses, Lo, I come unto thee in a thick cloud, that the people may hear when I speak with thee, and believe <0539>thee for ever. And Moses told the words of the people unto the LORD.
  • Numbers 11:12 Have I conceived all this people? have I begotten them, that thou shouldest say unto me, Carry them in thy bosom, as a nursing father <0539>beareth the sucking child, unto the land which thou swarest unto their fathers?
  • Numbers 12:7 My servant Moses is not so, who is faithful <0539> in all mine house.
  • Numbers 14:11 And the LORD said unto Moses, How long will this people provoke me? and how long will it be ere they believe <0539> me, for all the signs which I have shewed among them?
  • Numbers 20:12 And the LORD spake unto Moses and Aaron, Because ye believed <0539> me not, to sanctify me in the eyes of the children of Israel, therefore ye shall not bring this congregation into the land which I have given them.
  • Deuteronomy 1:32 Yet in this thing ye did not believe <0539> the LORD your God,
  • Deuteronomy 7:9 Know therefore that the LORD thy God, he is God, the faithful <0539> God, which keepeth covenant and mercy with them that love him and keep his commandments to a thousand generations;
  • Deuteronomy 9:23 Likewise when the LORD sent you from Kadeshbarnea, saying, Go up and possess the land which I have given you; then ye rebelled against the commandment of the LORD your God, and ye believed <0539> him not, nor hearkened to his voice.
  • Deuteronomy 28:59 Then the LORD will make thy plagues wonderful, and the plagues of thy seed, even great plagues, and of long continuance <0539>, and sore sicknesses, and of long continuance <0539>.
  • Deuteronomy 28:66 And thy life shall hang in doubt before thee; and thou shalt fear day and night, and shalt have none assurance <0539> of thy life:
  • Judges 11:20 But Sihon trusted <0539> not Israel to pass through his coast: but Sihon gathered all his people together, and pitched in Jahaz, and fought against Israel.
  • Ruth 4:16 And Naomi took the child, and laid it in her bosom, and became nurse <0539> unto it.
  • 1 Samuel 2:35 And I will raise me up a faithful <0539> priest, that shall do according to that which is in mine heart and in my mind: and I will build him a sure<0539> house; and he shall walk before mine anointed for ever.
  • 1 Samuel 3:20 And all Israel from Dan even to Beersheba knew that Samuel was established <0539> to be a prophet of the LORD. {established: or, faithful}
  • 1 Samuel 22:14 Then Ahimelech answered the king, and said, And who is so faithful <0539> among all thy servants as David, which is the king’s son in law, and goeth at thy bidding, and is honourable in thine house?
  • 1 Samuel 25:28 I pray thee, forgive the trespass of thine handmaid: for the LORD will certainly make my lord a sure <0539> house; because my lord fighteth the battles of the LORD, and evil hath not been found in thee all thy days.
  • 1 Samuel 27:12 And Achish believed <0539> David, saying, He hath made his people Israel utterly to abhor him; therefore he shall be my servant for ever.{utterly…: Heb. to stink}
  • 2 Samuel 4:4 And Jonathan, Saul’s son, had a son that was lame of his feet. He was five years old when the tidings came of Saul and Jonathan out of Jezreel, and his nurse <0539> took him up, and fled: and it came to pass, as she made haste to flee, that he fell, and became lame. And his name wasMephibosheth. {Mephibosheth: or, Meribbaal}
  • 2 Samuel 7:16 And thine house and thy kingdom shall be established <0539> for ever before thee: thy throne shall be established for ever.
  • 2 Samuel 20:19 I am one of them that are peaceable and faithful <0539> in Israel: thou seekest to destroy a city and a mother in Israel: why wilt thou swallow up the inheritance of the LORD?
  • 1 Kings 8:26 And now, O God of Israel, let thy word, I pray thee, be verified <0539>, which thou spakest unto thy servant David my father.
  • 1 Kings 10:7 Howbeit I believed <0539> not the words, until I came, and mine eyes had seen it: and, behold, the half was not told me: thy wisdom and prosperity exceedeth the fame which I heard. {thy…: Heb. thou hast added wisdom and goodness to}
  • 1 Kings 11:38 And it shall be, if thou wilt hearken unto all that I command thee, and wilt walk in my ways, and do that is right in my sight, to keep my statutes and my commandments, as David my servant did; that I will be with thee, and build thee a sure <0539> house, as I built for David, and will give Israel unto thee.
  • 2 Kings 10:1 And Ahab had seventy sons in Samaria. And Jehu wrote letters, and sent to Samaria, unto the rulers of Jezreel, to the elders, and to them that brought up <0539> Ahab’s children, saying, {them…: Heb. nourishers}
  • 2 Kings 10:5 And he that was over the house, and he that was over the city, the elders also, and the bringers up <0539> of the children, sent to Jehu, saying, We are thy servants, and will do all that thou shalt bid us; we will not make any king: do thou that which is good in thine eyes.
  • 2 Kings 17:14 Notwithstanding they would not hear, but hardened their necks, like to the neck of their fathers, that did not believe <0539> in the LORD their God.
  • 1 Chronicles 17:23 Therefore now, LORD, let the thing that thou hast spoken concerning thy servant and concerning his house be established <0539> for ever, and do as thou hast said.
  • 1 Chronicles 17:24 Let it even be established <0539>, that thy name may be magnified for ever, saying, The LORD of hosts is the God of Israel, even a God to Israel: and let the house of David thy servant be established before thee.
  • 2 Chronicles 1:9 Now, O LORD God, let thy promise unto David my father be established <0539>: for thou hast made me king over a people like the dust of the earth in multitude. {like…: Heb. much as the dust of the earth}
  • 2 Chronicles 6:17 Now then, O LORD God of Israel, let thy word be verified <0539>, which thou hast spoken unto thy servant David.
  • 2 Chronicles 9:6 Howbeit I believed <0539> not their words, until I came, and mine eyes had seen it: and, behold, the one half of the greatness of thy wisdom was not told me: for thou exceedest the fame that I heard.
  • 2 Chronicles 20:20 And they rose early in the morning, and went forth into the wilderness of Tekoa: and as they went forth, Jehoshaphat stood and said, Hear me, O Judah, and ye inhabitants of Jerusalem; Believe <0539> in the LORD your God, so shall ye be established <0539>; believe <0539> his prophets, so shall ye prosper.
  • 2 Chronicles 32:15 Now therefore let not Hezekiah deceive you, nor persuade you on this manner, neither yet believe <0539> him: for no god of any nation or kingdom was able to deliver his people out of mine hand, and out of the hand of my fathers: how much less shall your God deliver you out of mine hand?
  • Nehemiah 9:8 And foundest his heart faithful <0539> before thee, and madest a covenant with him to give the land of the Canaanites, the Hittites, the Amorites, and the Perizzites, and the Jebusites, and the Girgashites, to give it, I say, to his seed, and hast performed thy words; for thou art righteous:
  • Nehemiah 13:13 And I made treasurers over the treasuries, Shelemiah the priest, and Zadok the scribe, and of the Levites, Pedaiah: and next to them wasHanan the son of Zaccur, the son of Mattaniah: for they were counted faithful <0539>, and their office was to distribute unto their brethren. {treasuries: or, storehouses} {next…: Heb. at their hand} {their office…: Heb. it was upon them}
  • Esther 2:7 And he brought up <0539> Hadassah, that is, Esther, his uncle’s daughter: for she had neither father nor mother, and the maid was fair and beautiful; whom Mordecai, when her father and mother were dead, took for his own daughter. {brought…: Heb. nourished} {fair…: Heb. fair of form, and good of countenance}
  • Job 4:18 Behold, he put no trust <0539> in his servants; and his angels he charged with folly: {and his…: or, nor in his angels, in whom he put light}
  • Job 9:16 If I had called, and he had answered me; yet would I not believe <0539> that he had hearkened unto my voice.
  • Job 12:20 He removeth away the speech of the trusty <0539>, and taketh away the understanding of the aged. {speech…: Heb. lip of the faithful}
  • Job 15:15 Behold, he putteth no trust <0539> in his saints; yea, the heavens are not clean in his sight.
  • Job 15:22 He believeth <0539> not that he shall return out of darkness, and he is waited for of the sword.
  • Job 15:31 Let not him that is deceived trust <0539> in vanity: for vanity shall be his recompence.
  • Job 24:22 He draweth also the mighty with his power: he riseth up, and no man is sure <0539> of life. {no…: or, he trusteth not his own life}
  • Job 29:24 If I laughed on them, they believed <0539> it not; and the light of my countenance they cast not down.
  • Job 39:12 Wilt thou believe <0539> him, that he will bring home thy seed, and gather it into thy barn?
  • Job 39:24 He swalloweth the ground with fierceness and rage: neither believeth <0539> he that it is the sound of the trumpet.
  • Psalms 12:1 <<To the chief Musician upon Sheminith, A Psalm of David.>> Help, LORD; for the godly man ceaseth; for the faithful <0539> fail from among the children of men. {upon…: or, upon the eighth} {Help: or, Save}
  • Psalms 19:7 The law of the LORD is perfect, converting the soul: the testimony of the LORD is sure <0539>, making wise the simple. {law: or, doctrine}{converting: or, restoring}
  • Psalms 27:13 I had fainted, unless I had believed <0539> to see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living.
  • Psalms 31:23 O love the LORD, all ye his saints: for the LORD preserveth the faithful <0539>, and plentifully rewardeth the proud doer.
  • Psalms 78:8 And might not be as their fathers, a stubborn and rebellious generation; a generation that set not their heart aright, and whose spirit was not stedfast <0539> with God. {that…: Heb. that prepared not their heart}
  • Psalms 78:22 Because they believed <0539> not in God, and trusted not in his salvation:
  • Psalms 78:32 For all this they sinned still, and believed <0539> not for his wondrous works.
  • Psalms 78:37 For their heart was not right with him, neither were they stedfast <0539> in his covenant.
  • Psalms 89:28 My mercy will I keep for him for evermore, and my covenant shall stand fast <0539> with him.
  • Psalms 89:37 It shall be established for ever as the moon, and as a faithful <0539> witness in heaven. Selah.
  • Psalms 93:5 Thy testimonies are very sure <0539>: holiness becometh thine house, O LORD, for ever. {for ever: Heb. to length of days}
  • Psalms 101:6 Mine eyes shall be upon the faithful <0539> of the land, that they may dwell with me: he that walketh in a perfect way, he shall serve me. {in a…: or, perfect in the way}
  • Psalms 106:12 Then believed <0539> they his words; they sang his praise.
  • Psalms 106:24 Yea, they despised the pleasant land, they believed <0539> not his word: {the pleasant…: Heb. a land of desire}
  • Psalms 111:7 The works of his hands are verity and judgment; all his commandments are sure <0539>.
  • Psalms 116:10 I believed <0539>, therefore have I spoken: I was greatly afflicted:
  • Psalms 119:66 Teach me good judgment and knowledge: for I have believed <0539> thy commandments.
  • Proverbs 11:13 A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful <0539> spirit concealeth the matter. {A talebearer: Heb. He that walketh, being a talebearer}
  • Proverbs 14:15 The simple believeth <0539> every word: but the prudent man looketh well to his going.
  • Proverbs 25:13 As the cold of snow in the time of harvest, so is a faithful <0539> messenger to them that send him: for he refresheth the soul of his masters.
  • Proverbs 26:25 When he speaketh fair, believe <0539> him not: for there are seven abominations in his heart. {speaketh…: Heb. maketh his voice gracious}
  • Proverbs 27:6 Faithful <0539> are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful. {deceitful: or, earnest, or, frequent}
  • Isaiah 1:21 How is the faithful <0539> city become an harlot! it was full of judgment; righteousness lodged in it; but now murderers.
  • Isaiah 1:26 And I will restore thy judges as at the first, and thy counsellors as at the beginning: afterward thou shalt be called, The city of righteousness, the faithful <0539> city.
  • Isaiah 7:9 And the head of Ephraim is Samaria, and the head of Samaria is Remaliah’s son. If ye will not believe <0539>, surely ye shall not be established<0539>. {If…: or, Do ye not believe? it is because ye are not stable}
  • Isaiah 8:2 And I took unto me faithful <0539> witnesses to record, Uriah the priest, and Zechariah the son of Jeberechiah.
  • Isaiah 22:23 And I will fasten him as a nail in a sure <0539> place; and he shall be for a glorious throne to his father’s house.
  • Isaiah 22:25 In that day, saith the LORD of hosts, shall the nail that is fastened in the sure <0539> place be removed, and be cut down, and fall; and the burden that was upon it shall be cut off: for the LORD hath spoken it.
  • Isaiah 28:16 Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD, Behold, I lay in Zion for a foundation a stone, a tried stone, a precious corner stone, a sure foundation: he that believeth <0539> shall not make haste.
  • Isaiah 33:16 He shall dwell on high: his place of defence shall be the munitions of rocks: bread shall be given him; his waters shall be sure <0539>. {high: Heb. heights, or, high places}
  • Isaiah 43:10 Ye are my witnesses, saith the LORD, and my servant whom I have chosen: that ye may know and believe <0539> me, and understand that I amhe: before me there was no God formed, neither shall there be after me. {no…: or, nothing formed of God}
  • Isaiah 49:7 Thus saith the LORD, the Redeemer of Israel, and his Holy One, to him whom man despiseth, to him whom the nation abhorreth, to a servant of rulers, Kings shall see and arise, princes also shall worship, because of the LORD that is faithful <0539>, and the Holy One of Israel, and he shall choose thee. {whom man…: or, that is despised in soul}

4103 pistov pistos pis-tos’

from 3982; TDNT-6:174,849; adj

AV-faithful 53, believe 6, believing 2, true 2, faithfully 1, believer 1, sure 1; not tr 1; 67

1) trusty, faithful

1a) of persons who show themselves faithful in the transaction of business, the execution of commands, or the discharge of official duties

1b) one who kept his plighted faith, worthy of trust

1c) that can be relied on

2) easily persuaded

2a) believing, confiding, trusting

2b) in the NT one who trusts in God’s promises

2b1) one who is convinced that Jesus has been raised from the dead

2b2) one who has become convinced that Jesus is the Messiah and author of salvation

  • Matthew 24:45 Who then is a faithful <4103> and wise servant, whom his lord hath made ruler over his household, to give them meat in due season?
  • Matthew 25:21 His lord said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful <4103> servant: thou hast been faithful <4103> over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord.
  • Matthew 25:23 His lord said unto him, Well done, good and faithful <4103> servant; thou hast been faithful <4103> over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord.
  • Luke 12:42 And the Lord said, Who then is that faithful <4103> and wise steward, whom his lord shall make ruler over his household, to give them theirportion of meat in due season?
  • Luke 16:10 He that is faithful <4103> in that which is least is faithful <4103> also in much: and he that is unjust in the least is unjust also in much.
  • Luke 16:11 If therefore ye have not been faithful <4103> in the unrighteous mammon, who will commit to your trust the true riches{mammon: or, riches}
  • Luke 16:12 And if ye have not been faithful <4103> in that which is another man’s, who shall give you that which is your own?
  • Luke 19:17 And he said unto him, Well, thou good servant: because thou hast been faithful <4103> in a very little, have thou authority over ten cities.
  • John 20:27 Then saith he to Thomas, Reach hither thy finger, and behold my hands; and reach hither thy hand, and thrust it into my side: and be not faithless, but believing <4103>.
  • Acts 10:45 And they of the circumcision which believed <4103> were astonished, as many as came with Peter, because that on the Gentiles also was poured out the gift of the Holy Ghost.
  • Acts 13:34 And as concerning that he raised him up from the dead, now no more to return to corruption, he said on this wise, I will give you the sure <4103>mercies of David. {mercies: Gr. holy, or just things: which word the Septuagint in many places, uses for that which is in the Hebrew, mercies}
  • Acts 16:1 Then came he to Derbe and Lystra: and, behold, a certain disciple was there, named Timotheus, the son of a certain woman, which was a Jewess, and believed <4103>; but his father was a Greek:
  • Acts 16:15 And when she was baptized, and her household, she besought us, saying, If ye have judged me to be faithful <4103> to the Lord, come into my house, and abide there. And she constrained us.
  • 1 Corinthians 1:9 God is faithful <4103>, by whom ye were called unto the fellowship of his Son Jesus Christ our Lord.
  • 1 Corinthians 4:2 Moreover it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful <4103>.
  • 1 Corinthians 4:17 For this cause have I sent unto you Timotheus, who is my beloved son, and faithful <4103> in the Lord, who shall bring you into remembrance of my ways which be in Christ, as I teach every where in every church.
  • 1 Corinthians 7:25 Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful <4103>.
  • 1 Corinthians 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful <4103>, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it{common…: or, moderate}
  • 2 Corinthians 1:18 But as God is true <4103>, our word toward you was not yea and nay. {word: or, preaching}
  • 2 Corinthians 6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth <4103> with an infidel?
  • Galatians 3:9 So then they which be of faith are blessed with faithful <4103> Abraham.
  • Ephesians 1:1 Paul, an apostle of Jesus Christ by the will of God, to the saints which are at Ephesus, and to the faithful <4103> in Christ Jesus:
  • Ephesians 6:21 But that ye also may know my affairs, and how I do, Tychicus, a beloved brother and faithful <4103> minister in the Lord, shall make known to you all things:
  • Colossians 1:2 To the saints and faithful <4103> brethren in Christ which are at Colosse: Grace be unto you, and peace, from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
  • Colossians 1:7 As ye also learned of Epaphras our dear fellowservant, who is for you a faithful <4103> minister of Christ;
  • Colossians 4:7 All my state shall Tychicus declare unto you, who is a beloved brother, and a faithful <4103> minister and fellowservant in the Lord:
  • Colossians 4:9 With Onesimus, a faithful <4103> and beloved brother, who is one of you. They shall make known unto you all things which are done here.
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:24 Faithful <4103> is he that calleth you, who also will do it.
  • 2 Thessalonians 3:3 But the Lord is faithful <4103>, who shall stablish you, and keep you from evil.
  • 1 Timothy 1:12 And I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who hath enabled me, for that he counted me faithful <4103>, putting me into the ministry;
  • 1 Timothy 1:15 This is a faithful <4103> saying, and worthy of all acceptation, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners; of whom I am chief.
  • 1 Timothy 3:1 This is a true <4103> saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work.
  • 1 Timothy 3:11 Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful <4103> in all things.
  • 1 Timothy 4:3 Forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from meats, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe<4103> and know the truth.
  • 1 Timothy 4:9 This is a faithful <4103> saying and worthy of all acceptation.
  • 1 Timothy 4:10 For therefore we both labour and suffer reproach, because we trust in the living God, who is the Saviour of all men, specially of those that believe <4103>.
  • 1 Timothy 4:12 Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers <4103>, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.
  • 1 Timothy 5:16 If any man <4103> or woman that believeth <4103> have widows, let them relieve them, and let not the church be charged; that it may relieve them that are widows indeed.
  • 1 Timothy 6:2 And they that have believing <4103> masters, let them not despise them, because they are brethren; but rather do them service, because they are faithful <4103> and beloved, partakers of the benefit. These things teach and exhort. {faithful: or, believing}
  • 2 Timothy 2:2 And the things that thou hast heard of me among many witnesses, the same commit thou to faithful <4103> men, who shall be able to teach others also. {among: or, by}
  • 2 Timothy 2:11 It is a faithful <4103> saying: For if we be dead with him, we shall also live with him:
  • 2 Timothy 2:13 If we believe not, yet he abideth faithful <4103>: he cannot deny himself.
  • Titus 1:6 If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful <4103> children not accused of riot or unruly.
  • Titus 1:9 Holding fast the faithful <4103> word as he hath been taught, that he may be able by sound doctrine both to exhort and to convince the gainsayers.{as…: or, in teaching}
  • Titus 3:8 This is a faithful <4103> saying, and these things I will that thou affirm constantly, that they which have believed in God might be careful to maintain good works. These things are good and profitable unto men.
  • Hebrews 2:17 Wherefore in all things it behoved him to be made like unto his brethren, that he might be a merciful and faithful <4103> high priest in thingspertaining to God, to make reconciliation for the sins of the people.
  • Hebrews 3:2 Who was faithful <4103> to him that appointed him, as also Moses was faithful in all his house. {appointed: Gr. made}
  • Hebrews 3:5 And Moses verily was faithful <4103> in all his house, as a servant, for a testimony of those things which were to be spoken after;
  • Hebrews 10:23 Let us hold fast the profession of our faith without wavering; (for he is faithful <4103> that promised;)
  • Hebrews 11:11 Through faith also Sara herself received strength to conceive seed, and was delivered of a child when she was past age, because she judged him faithful <4103> who had promised.
  • 1 Peter 4:19 Wherefore let them that suffer according to the will of God commit the keeping of their souls to him in well doing, as unto a faithful <4103>Creator.
  • 1 Peter 5:12 By Silvanus, a faithful <4103> brother unto you, as I suppose, I have written briefly, exhorting, and testifying that this is the true grace of God wherein ye stand.
  • 1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful <4103> and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
  • 3 John 1:5 Beloved, thou doest faithfully <4103> whatsoever thou doest to the brethren, and to strangers;
  • Revelation 1:5 And from Jesus Christ, who is the faithful <4103> witness, and the first begotten of the dead, and the prince of the kings of the earth. Unto him that loved us, and washed us from our sins in his own blood,
  • Revelation 2:10 Fear none of those things which thou shalt suffer: behold, the devil shall cast some of you into prison, that ye may be tried; and ye shall have tribulation ten days: be thou faithful <4103> unto death, and I will give thee a crown of life.
  • Revelation 2:13 I know thy works, and where thou dwellest, even where Satan’s seat is: and thou holdest fast my name, and hast not denied my faith, even in those days wherein Antipas was my faithful <4103> martyr, who was slain among you, where Satan dwelleth.
  • Revelation 3:14 And unto the angel of the church of the Laodiceans write; These things saith the Amen, the faithful <4103> and true witness, the beginning of the creation of God; {of the Laodiceans: or, in Laodicea}
  • Revelation 17:14 These shall make war with the Lamb, and the Lamb shall overcome them: for he is Lord of lords, and King of kings: and they that are with him are called, and chosen, and faithful <4103>.
  • Revelation 19:11 And I saw heaven opened, and behold a white horse; and he that sat upon him was called Faithful <4103> and True, and in righteousness he doth judge and make war.
  • Revelation 21:5 And he that sat upon the throne said, Behold, I make all things new. And he said unto me, Write: for these words are true and faithful <4103>.
  • Revelation 22:6 And he said unto me, These sayings are faithful <4103> and true: and the Lord God of the holy prophets sent his angel to shew unto his servants the things which must shortly be done.

Hymns and Choruses Related to Dependability

  • A Mighty Fortress Is Our God (Martin Luther, 1483-1546)
  • Great Is Thy Faithfulness (Thomas O. Chisholm, 1866-1960)
  • Will Jesus Find Us Watching (Fanny J. Crosby, 1840-1908)
  • Faith of Our Fathers (Frederick W. Faber, 1814-1863)
  • Jesus Never Fails (Arthur A. Luther, 1891-1960)
  • Let the Lower Lights Be Burning (Philip P. Bliss, 1838-1876)

 

Quotes on Boldness

  • We fear men so much because we fear God so little. One fear curses another. When man’s terror scares you, turn your thoughts to the wrath of God – William Gurnall
  • There is nothing more dangerous on this planet than people that are not afraid of dying – Josef Tson
  • Right is right, even if everyone is against it, and wrong is wrong, even if everyone is for it – William Penn

 

How the Cry of a Victim Was More Powerful Than the Gun of a Robber

This account appeared in The Dallas Morning News on October 28, 2001, in an article titled “Gunman faces off with prayer’s power” by columnist Steve Blow.

Sherman Jackson was a little late for the share service at his church on a recent Sunday night.

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But that was OK. He had quite a story to share once he got there.
Sherman, 36, and his 7-year-old daughter, Alexa, had stopped for gas on their way to church. This was on Northwest Highway, where Garland and Mesquite and Dallas all meet.
As they were about to drive away, a 30-ish fellow walked up. “Hey, man, I need your help,” he said. “Could you please help me jump-start my car? I’ll pay you to help me.”
Sherman fretted a moment about being late for church. Then he chided himself for thinking of that over helping someone. So he invited the fellow to get in the front seat. Alexa was in back. And they drove off.
They hadn’t gone far when the man reached into his pocket. “I thought he was trying to get out some change to pay me for helping him,” Sherman said. But no.
“He pulled out a revolver with his right hand and placed his left hand on my shoulder. He pointed the revolver into my rib cage and said, “OK, man, this is for real. You give me all of your money right now, or I’m going to unload this gun on you.”
Sherman was terrified, of course. And mad at himself for putting his daughter in danger.
“OK, look, here’s all I have on me,” he said, pulling out his money clip. “Take it all.”
But the robber didn’t believe him. “That’s not all. Give it all to me,” he said, shoving the gun harder into Sherman’s ribs. Sherman, a Garland insurance agent, keeps Gideon Bibles in his car with a dollar bill tucked in each one. He gives them to the homeless. The gunman spotted one of those bills sticking out and began to scream at Sherman: “You lied to me! There is more money here.”
Something came over Sherman just then, and he began to pray out loud. “Father in heaven, hear my cry and deliver me from this present evil . . .”
He felt a sudden calm. “I lost all consciousness of concern and worry,” he said. “A boldness took over.”
He slowed the car and began to make a U-turn. The gunman screamed, “What are you doing?”
“This car is being turned around,” Sherman replied, “and I am not taking orders from you anymore.”
The man put the gun against Sherman’s chest. “You don’t get it, man. You mean nothing to me. I’ll pull this trigger.” “No, you don’t understand,” Sherman cut him off.
“Greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world. My Jesus is stronger than your gun.”
He could see the gunman tug on the trigger. The hammer drew back. But Sherman didn’t flinch. He pulled over and stopped.
“I want to tell you about Jesus,” he said to the gunman. The man wavered a moment, lowered his gun, and then dropped his head. When he looked up, he was crying. “I’m so sorry, man. I’m so, so sorry,” he said. “I was going to shoot you.”
“Don’t worry about it. I forgive you,” Sherman said. And then he began to tell the man about new life through belief in Jesus.
Sherman urged the man to go on to church with him, but he declined. He asked Sherman to drive him to his car at a store.
Along the way, the man began to tell Sherman about all his problems. He said his name was Mike and reached out to shake Sherman’s hand. Sherman continued talking to him about starting life anew with God.
As they neared the grocery, Sherman said, “And by the way, Mike, I want my money clip back.”
“Do what?!” Mike exclaimed. But then he meekly handed it over.
“And,” Sherman went on, “you are keeping this New Testament, and you are going to read it like you never read anything else before. And I’m going to be praying for you, Mike, that God will come into your life.”
They pulled alongside Mike’s car. “He got out,” Sherman said, “with the revolver in one hand, the Bible in the other hand, and tears in his eyes.”
And Sherman drove on to church.
-The Dallas Morning News

Personal Evaluation of Boldness

  • When is the last time you stood alone on the side of right when it cost you something?
  • When you hear of someone being falsely accused, do you remain silent or clarify what you know to be right even when it is unpopular?
  • The last time God prompted you to witness to a stranger, did you do it or remain silent?
  • Have you followed through on asking forgiveness of those you know you have wronged?
  • Have you dedicated your life to fufill God’s calling, and are you determined to make whatever sacrifices God requires?
  • What Biblical convictions do you have that you are willing to die for?

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Learn How One Man Gained Power Over Fear

A man was diagnosed with cancer and was told he had only a few months to live. Soon after that, a burglar was trapped in a nearby store. The man volunteered to go in and apprehend the criminal. He reasoned that if he died in the process, he would become a hero rather than experience an uneventful death. The burglar was so overwhelmed by this man’s boldness that he surrendered. 

The man volunteered for other acts of bravery and astonished everyone. But then the doctors informed him that they had misdiagnosed his case. He did not have cancer and would live. His fear returned, and his courage and power were lost.
Achieving True Success

John Knox

John Knox was a 16th century reformer. He boldly spoke the truth to his large congregation in Scotland but was arrested for it and chained to the oars of a galley ship. During long months of pulling on oars, he built not only his physical strength but also strength of fervent prayer. His cry was, “O God! Give me Scotland or I die!” His life and work for God became so powerful that the Queen of Scotland is quoted as saying, “I fear the prayers of John Knox more than all the assembled armies of Europe.”

The record on the tomb of John Knox reads: “Here lies the man who never feared the face of clay.”

Wanted: One Hundred Men

John Wesley said: “Give me a hundred men who fear nothing but sin, and desire nothing but God, and I will shake the world. I care not a straw whether they be clergymen or laymen; and such alone will overthrow the kingdom of Satan and build up the Kingdom of God on earth.”

The General Took His Stand

Frederick the Great was a scoffer, but his great general, Von Zealand, was a Christian. One day at a gathering, the king was making coarse jokes about Jesus Christ and the whole place was ringing with guffaws.

Von Zealand arose swiftly and said, “Sire, you know I have not feared death. I am an old man. I soon shall have to go into the presence of One greater than yourself – the mighty God who saved me from my sin, the Lord Jesus Christ whom you are blaspheming against. I salute thee, sire, as an old man who loves his Saviour, on the edge of eternity.”

With trembling voice, Frederick replied, “General Von Zealand, I beg your pardon. I beg your pardon! I beg your pardon!”

The company silently dispersed.

The “I Wills” of Boldness

  • I will not be afraid to speak the truth
  • I will keep a clear conscience
  • I will support others when they are right
  • I will be willing to stand alone
  • I will speak with humility

Character First! Education Series 3

How to Demonstrate Boldness

at Home

  • Consistently living out the character standards the family has set for themselves, even if others do not understand.
  • Being ready to explain to those outside the family the family’s commitment to following God’s Ways.
  • Going to one another in a loving spirit when he or she is not demonstrating good character.

at Work/School

  • Not being afraid to walk away from friends who are engaged in foolish or harmful activities.
  • Taking God-given opportunities to share your faith in Christ.

at Church

  • Refusing to listen to gossip.
  • Being willing to confront the compromise in another’s life in a spirit of humility.

Character Definitions of Boldness

  • Learning how to base words and actions on the authority of Scripture. Demonstrating the confidence that following the principles of Scripture will bring ultimate victory regardless of present opposition. Being willing to stand alone on the side of right even when it requires personal sacrifice (Character Clues Game)
  • Welcoming any suffering that comes from doing what is right, because it will produce a greater power of love (The Power for True Success)
  • Confidence that what I have to say or do is true, right, and just (Character First!)

 

Bible Stories Related to Boldness

  • The boldness of the apostles in Acts 5
  • The story of Daniel’s three friends in Daniel chapter 3
  • The story of Daniel with King Darius (Daniel 6:1-26)
  • The story of David and Goliath (1 Samuel 17)

 

Bible Verses Related to Boldness

Spend an evening (or several) looking at just one of these verses at a time. Discuss with your family what each verse or story teaches about the character quality; and give vital application of how this quality can be applied to your family. Choose several verses to memorize together as a family during the month. 

662 apotolmaw apotolmao ap-ot-ol-mah’-o

from 575 and 5111; TDNT-8:181,1183; v

AV-be very bold 1; 1

1) to assume boldness, make bold

Romans 10:20 But Esaias is very bold <662>, and saith, I was found of them that sought me not; I was made manifest unto them that asked not after me.


2292 yarrew tharrheo thar-hreh’-o

another form for 2293; TDNT-3:25,315; v

AV-be bold 2, be confident 1, confident 1, have confidence 1, boldly 1; 6

1) to be of good courage, be of good cheer

2) to be bold

  • 2 Corinthians 5:6 Therefore we are always confident <2292>, knowing that, whilst we are at home in the body, we are absent from the Lord:
  • 2 Corinthians 5:8 We are confident <2292>, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord.
  • 2 Corinthians 7:16 I rejoice therefore that I have confidence <2292> in you in all things.
  • 2 Corinthians 10:1 Now I Paul myself beseech you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ, who in presence am base among you, but being absent am bold <2292> toward you: {in presence: or, in outward appearance}
  • 2 Corinthians 10:2 But I beseech you, that I may not be bold <2292> when I am present with that confidence, wherewith I think to be bold against some, which think of us as if we walked according to the flesh. {think: or, reckon}
  • Hebrews 13:6 So that we may boldly <2292> say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.

3954 parrhsia parrhesia par-rhay-see’-ah

from 3956 and a derivative of 4483; TDNT-5:871,794; n f

AV-boldness 8, confidence 6, openly 4, plainly 4, openly + 1722 2, boldly + 1722 1, misc 6; 31

1) freedom in speaking, unreservedness in speech

1a) openly, frankly, i.e without concealment

1b) without ambiguity or circumlocution

1c) without the use of figures and comparisons

2) free and fearless confidence, cheerful courage, boldness, assurance

3) the deportment by which one becomes conspicuous or secures publicity

  • Mark 8:32 And he spake that saying openly <3954>. And Peter took him, and began to rebuke him.
  • John 7:4 For there is no man that doeth any thing in secret, and he himself seeketh to be known openly <3954>. If thou do these things, shew thyself to the world.
  • John 7:13 Howbeit no man spake openly <3954> of him for fear of the Jews.
  • John 7:26 But, lo, he speaketh boldly <3954>, and they say nothing unto him. Do the rulers know indeed that this is the very Christ?
  • John 10:24 Then came the Jews round about him, and said unto him, How long dost thou make us to doubt? If thou be the Christ, tell us plainly <3954>. {make…: or, hold us in suspense}
  • John 11:14 Then said Jesus unto them plainly <3954>, Lazarus is dead.
  • John 11:54 Jesus therefore walked no more openly <3954> among the Jews; but went thence unto a country near to the wilderness, into a city called Ephraim, and there continued with his disciples.
  • John 16:25 These things have I spoken unto you in proverbs: but the time cometh, when I shall no more speak unto you in proverbs, but I shall shew you plainly <3954> of the Father. {proverbs: or, parables}
  • John 16:29 His disciples said unto him, Lo, now speakest thou plainly <3954>, and speakest no proverb. {proverb: or, parable}
  • John 18:20 Jesus answered him, I spake openly <3954> to the world; I ever taught in the synagogue, and in the temple, whither the Jews always resort; and in secret have I said nothing.
  • Acts 2:29 Men and brethren, let me freely <3954> speak unto you of the patriarch David, that he is both dead and buried, and his sepulchre is with us unto this day. {let me: or, I may}
  • Acts 4:13 Now when they saw the boldness <3954> of Peter and John, and perceived that they were unlearned and ignorant men, they marvelled; and they took knowledge of them, that they had been with Jesus.
  • Acts 4:29 And now, Lord, behold their threatenings: and grant unto thy servants, that with all boldness <3954> they may speak thy word,
  • Acts 4:31 And when they had prayed, the place was shaken where they were assembled together; and they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and they spake the word of God with boldness <3954>.
  • Acts 28:31 Preaching the kingdom of God, and teaching those things which concern the Lord Jesus Christ, with all confidence <3954>, no man forbidding him.
  • 2 Corinthians 3:12 Seeing then that we have such hope, we use great plainness of speech <3954>: {plainness: or, boldness}
  • 2 Corinthians 7:4 Great is my boldness of speech <3954> toward you, great is my glorying of you: I am filled with comfort, I am exceeding joyful in all our tribulation.
  • Ephesians 3:12 In whom we have boldness <3954> and access with confidence by the faith of him.
  • Ephesians 6:19 And for me, that utterance may be given unto me, that I may open my mouth boldly <3954>, to make known the mystery of the gospel,
  • Philippians 1:20 According to my earnest expectation and my hope, that in nothing I shall be ashamed, but that with all boldness <3954>, as always, so now also Christ shall be magnified in my body, whether it be by life, or by death.
  • Colossians 2:15 And having spoiled principalities and powers, he made a shew of them openly <3954>, triumphing over them in it. {in it: or, in himself}
  • 1 Timothy 3:13 For they that have used the office of a deacon well purchase to themselves a good degree, and great boldness <3954> in the faith which is in Christ Jesus. {used…: or, ministered}
  • Philemon 1:8 Wherefore, though I might be much bold <3954> in Christ to enjoin thee that which is convenient,
  • Hebrews 3:6 But Christ as a son over his own house; whose house are we, if we hold fast the confidence <3954> and the rejoicing of the hope firm unto the end.
  • Hebrews 4:16 Let us therefore come boldly <3954> unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.
  • Hebrews 10:19 Having therefore, brethren, boldness <3954> to enter into the holiest by the blood of Jesus, {boldness: or, liberty}
  • Hebrews 10:35 Cast not away therefore your confidence <3954>, which hath great recompence of reward.
  • 1 John 2:28 And now, little children, abide in him; that, when he shall appear, we may have confidence <3954>, and not be ashamed before him at his coming.
  • 1 John 3:21 Beloved, if our heart condemn us not, then have we confidence <3954> toward God.
  • 1 John 4:17 Herein is our love made perfect, that we may have boldness <3954> in the day of judgment: because as he is, so are we in this world. {our love: Gr. love with us}
  • 1 John 5:14 And this is the confidence <3954> that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us: {in: or, concerning}

3955 parrhsiazomai parrhesiazomai par-hray-see-ad’-zom-ahee

middle voice from 3954; TDNT-5:871,794; v

AV-speak boldly 4, preach boldly 1, be bold 1, wax bold 1, boldly 1, freely 1; 9

1) to use freedom in speaking, be free spoken

1a) to speak freely

2) to grow confident, have boldness, show assurance, assume a bold bearing

  • Acts 9:27 But Barnabas took him, and brought him to the apostles, and declared unto them how he had seen the Lord in the way, and that he had spoken to him, and how he had preached boldly <3955> at Damascus in the name of Jesus.
  • Acts 9:29 And he spake boldly <3955> in the name of the Lord Jesus, and disputed against the Grecians: but they went about to slay him.
  • Acts 13:46 Then Paul and Barnabas waxed bold <3955>, and said, It was necessary that the word of God should first have been spoken to you: but seeing ye put it from you, and judge yourselves unworthy of everlasting life, lo, we turn to the Gentiles.
  • Acts 14:3 Long time therefore abode they speaking boldly <3955> in the Lord, which gave testimony unto the word of his grace, and granted signs and wonders to be done by their hands.
  • Acts 18:26 And he began to speak boldly <3955> in the synagogue: whom when Aquila and Priscilla had heard, they took him unto them, and expounded unto him the way of God more perfectly.
  • Acts 19:8 And he went into the synagogue, and spake boldly <3955> for the space of three months, disputing and persuading the things concerning the kingdom of God.
  • Acts 26:26 For the king knoweth of these things, before whom also I speak freely <3955>: for I am persuaded that none of these things are hidden from him; for this thing was not done in a corner.
  • Ephesians 6:20 For which I am an ambassador in bonds: that therein I may speak boldly <3955>, as I ought to speak. {in bonds: or, in a chain} {therein: or, thereof}
  • 1 Thessalonians 2:2 But even after that we had suffered before, and were shamefully entreated, as ye know, at Philippi, we were bold <3955> in our God to speak unto you the gospel of God with much contention.

5111 tolmaw tolmao tol-mah’-o

from tolma (boldness, probably itself from the base of 5056 through the idea of extreme conduct); TDNT-8:181,1183; v

AV-durst 7, dare 4, be bold 4, boldly 1; 16

1) not to dread or shun through fear

2) to bear, endure

3) to bring one’s self to

4) to be bold

5) bear one’s self boldly, deal boldly

  • Matthew 22:46 And no man was able to answer him a word, neither durst <5111> any man from that day forth ask him any more questions.
  • Mark 12:34 And when Jesus saw that he answered discreetly, he said unto him, Thou art not far from the kingdom of God. And no man after that durst <5111> ask him any question.
  • Mark 15:43 Joseph of Arimathaea, an honourable counsellor, which also waited for the kingdom of God, came, and went in boldly <5111> unto Pilate, and craved the body of Jesus.
  • Luke 20:40 And after that they durst <5111> not ask him any question at all.
  • John 21:12 Jesus saith unto them, Come and dine. And none of the disciples durst <5111> ask him, Who art thou? knowing that it was the Lord.
  • Acts 5:13 And of the rest durst <5111> no man join himself to them: but the people magnified them.
  • Acts 7:32 Saying, I am the God of thy fathers, the God of Abraham, and the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob. Then Moses trembled, and durst <5111> not behold.
  • Romans 5:7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would <5111> even dare <5111> to die.
  • Romans 15:18 For I will <5111> not dare <5111> to speak of any of those things which Christ hath not wrought by me, to make the Gentiles obedient, by word and deed,
  • 1 Corinthians 6:1 Dare <5111> any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the unjust, and not before the saints?
  • 2 Corinthians 10:2 But I beseech you, that I may not be bold when I am present with that confidence, wherewith I think to be bold <5111> against some, which think of us as if we walked according to the flesh. {think: or, reckon}
  • 2 Corinthians 10:12 For we dare <5111> not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise. {are…: or, understand it not}
  • 2 Corinthians 11:21 I speak as concerning reproach, as though we had been weak. Howbeit whereinsoever any is bold <5111>, (I speak foolishly,) I am bold <5111> also.
  • Philippians 1:14 And many of the brethren in the Lord, waxing confident by my bonds, are much more bold <5111> to speak the word without fear.
  • Jude 1:9 Yet Michael the archangel, when contending with the devil he disputed about the body of Moses, durst <5111> not bring against him a railing accusation, but said, The Lord rebuke thee.

5112 tolmhroteron tolmeroteron tol-may-rot’-er-on

neuter of the compound of a derivative of the base of 5111 (as adverb); TDNT-8:181, *; adj

AV-the more boldly 1; 1

1) more boldly

  • Romans 15:15 Nevertheless, brethren, I have written the more boldly <5112> unto you in some sort, as putting you in mind, because of the grace that is given to me of God, 

Hymns and Choruses Related to Boldness

  • Who Is on the Lord’s Side (Frances R. Havergal, 1836-1879)
  • Stand Up for Jesus (George Duffield, 1818-1888)
  • I Am Resolved (Palmer Hartsough, 1844-1932)
  • Dare to Be a Daniel (Philip P. Bliss, 1838-1876)
  • The Fight Is On (Lelia N. Morris, 1862-1929)
  • Am I a Soldier of the Cross (Isaac Watts, 1674-1748)

 

The Role of Leadership

Parents and teachers have the responsibility to teach their children safety rules such as “look both ways before crossing the street,” “don’t talk to strangers,” “don’t run with sharp objects,” and “buckle your seat belt.” Thorough instruction, however, goes beyond the rules to provide reasons and examples. Stories of cautious decisions and rash mistakes can create lasting impressions. With enough warning, one generation might avoid the mistakes of the previous generation.

Character First! Education Series 3

God’s Ways Are The Opposite of Our Natural Inclinations

Natural Inclinations God’s Ways
1. Reject unchangeable physical or family features. Accept these as God’s means of developing inward character, and thank Him for them.
2. React to parents and others in authority who do not give us what we want. Recognize that God has established all human authorities to praise those who do good and punish those who do evil.
3. Cover our secret sins and failures so others will not think less of us. Humble ourselves by confessing faults, asking forgiveness, and making restitution were appropriate. “Before honor is humility” (Proverbs 15:33), but he that covers his sin will not prosper (see Proverbs 28:13).
4. Reject our offenders and eagerly hope that they will be damaged. Forgive those who offend us, and look for ways to benefit their lives.
5. Claim ownership of our possessions and use them for our own pleasure. Dedicate our possessions to God, and use them to advance His Kingdom.
6. Reprove those who fail to respect our personal rights. Yield our rights to God, and thank Him for whatever happens beyond our control.
7. Enjoy the pleasures of sensuality and lust. Dedicate our bodies to God as “living sacrifices” and daily yield our bodies to Him.
8. Desire to be rich so we will have security, nice possessions, and the praise of others. Purpose to be a “giver” rather than a “taker,” and learn how to serve others to make them successful.
9. Lead your family by asserting your authority. Look for ways to serve each member of your family.
10. Choose friends on the basis of what they can do for you. Invest in the lives of those God has brought into your life.

Many of these ideas taken from The Power for True Success 

How Cautious Are You?

  • Do you screen the kinds of magazines, book, videos and other influences that come into your home?
  • Do you have adequate protection on your home internet?
  • Do you have friends or activities that are wrong influences on you or your family?
  • Do your Seek God’s will for every situation?
  • Do you ask for counsel from wise and experienced people?
  • Do you learn from the mistakes of others?
  • Do you think about what you are going to say before you speak?
  • Do you consider the right timing for doing a good deed?
  • Do you realise how your actions will affect others?
  • Do you plan ahead and count the cost, especially for big endeavors?

-Ideas from the Character Clues Game and The Power for True Success

The “I Wills” of Cautiousness

  • I will think before I act
  • I will follow safety rules
  • I will ask permission
  • I will talk at the right time
  • I will look out for danger

Character First! Education Series 3

How to Demonstrate Cautiousness

at Home

  • Deciding if the family has enough money for major expenditures – before making them.
  • Forseeing negative influences in a semmingly good opportunity and avoiding them.
  • Seeking counsel from one another before finalizing decisions.
  • Judging an activity by whether or not it would encourage good character.
  • Asking the owner’s permission before taking or moving his or her belongings.

at Work/School

  • Being careful to choose the right kind of friends.
  • Recognising that every extra-marital affair begins by giving inappropriate attention to members of the opposite sex.
  • Avoiding compromise by purposing to be true to God’s standards.
  • Listening to the cautions of your wife regarding business decisions.

at Church

  • Avoiding listening to gossip or “bad reports” about church leaders or other members.
  • Making sure there is always another person present when counseling members of the opposite sex..
  • Guarding against compromise by maintaining the highest standards in relation to music, dress, etc.

Character Definitions of Cautiousness

  • Learning that unfamiliar situations may contain danger. Gaining adequate counsel before making decisions. Seeing future consequences of present actions. Learning to detect and avoid evil and ungodly people. Recognizing temptations and fleeing them. (Character Clues Game)
  • Knowing the importance of right timing in accomplishing right actions. (Character First!)
  • Cautiousness is planning for the success of a venture by following the ways of God rather than my natural inclinations (The Power for True Success)